In Kuwait, friends, neighbors, classmates and complete strangers have poured their support into a fundraising effort for Sgt. Declan J. Coady, the youngest U.S. soldier killed in the opening days of the war with Iran. Coady’s death on March 1 came when an Iranian‑launched drone struck a U.S. tactical operations center at the Port of Shuaiba, killing six American service members. The online GoFundMe set up to help his family has now raised more than $100,000 as of March 5, with over 1,500 donations from people around the country and the world.
Coady, a 20‑year‑old Army Reserve soldier from West Des Moines, Iowa, was just two months shy of his 21st birthday. He had enlisted in 2023 as an information technology specialist and was attending Drake University online, studying information systems, cybersecurity and computer science while deployed. Those who knew him describe him as “smart and kind,” a supportive brother and a bright young man with a future full of promise.
His family friend who organized the fundraiser said the money is meant to help cover funeral costs, travel expenses and other needs that have come with this sudden loss. Donors left messages expressing their condolences and gratitude, saying Declan’s sacrifice and service should never be forgotten. One supporter wrote that his heart goes out to the family, while another thanked him for his bravery and commitment to the nation.
Those closest to Coady talk about a young man who took his duties seriously but also kept his sense of humor and warmth. His sister shared that she wished she had one more chance to tell him she loved him, and that the family is struggling with the shock and pain of losing someone so young. Many people who knew Declan online or from school shared memories of his dedication and kindness.
The strike that killed him and five others is part of the widening conflict known as Operation Epic Fury, a military campaign following a series of escalations between the U.S., Israel and Iran. The Pentagon identified Coady and three other soldiers from the same Army Reserve unit based in Des Moines, while two more service members were identified later. These losses mark the first American military casualties in this new chapter of the conflict.
Back home, classmates and teachers at Drake University are remembering Coady as a dedicated student who balanced his military service with academic ambitions. Professors remembered him as hardworking, thoughtful and committed to his studies. Local organizers are planning vigils and memorials to honor his life and the lives of all those lost in the attack.
The fundraising campaign continues to grow, becoming a focal point for people looking to express their support for the family and honor the sacrifice of a young soldier who gave his life in service. Every message and donation is a reminder that behind the headlines are real families grappling with loss and communities reaching out to offer comfort and solidarity.
